Murray Hill, NYC · Based Approach

NYC Dating Coach for Men — Hinge, Bumble & Tinder

Based
Dating
Advice.

More Dates. More Success.

I help guys win on dating apps. Your profile, your messages, your photos — all fixable. Let's get to work.

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Apps I Work With
Hinge
Bumble
Tinder
Murray Hill Guy
Packages

Three Ways to
Level Up

Not sure which is right for you? Book a free intro call — we'll figure out which plan fits your situation.

01
Profile Audit

A full breakdown of everything that's working and everything that isn't — so you know exactly what to change and why.

  • Full profile breakdown
  • Photo rankings & order
  • Prompt review & rewrites
  • Exact changes to make immediately
  • What women actually see when they view your profile
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Profile + Message Game

Everything in the audit, plus full conversation coaching — from first message to getting her off the app and onto a date.

  • Everything in the Profile Audit
  • Conversation breakdowns
  • Openers, replies & flirting
  • How to get off the app and onto dates
  • 2 weeks of follow-up support
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03
VIP Coaching

Full-access, ongoing coaching. For the guy who's serious about locking in every part of his dating life — not just one session.

  • Unlimited profile reviews
  • Unlimited texting & conversation help
  • Date planning
  • Post-date analysis
  • Voice note support
  • Accountability & priority responses
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Stand Out

In a sea of average guys. Your profile will be the exception, not the rule.

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Get Better Conversations

That lead to real dates — not endless small talk that goes nowhere.

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Book More Dates

And actually enjoy the process. That's the goal. That's the result.

"Dating apps are a meritocracy — the guys winning just stopped making excuses and started making changes."

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The Process

Simple.
Fast. Effective.

01
Book a Free Intro Call

A quick call to figure out which package fits your situation — then the real work begins.

02
Send Your Material

Profile screenshots, photos, conversation threads — whatever's relevant to your package. The more context, the sharper the work.

03
Get Your Playbook

Specific, actionable changes delivered back to you. No filler, no vague suggestions — just exactly what to fix and how.

Why MHG

Real Talk.
Real Results.

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No BS, No Fluff

You'll get the unvarnished truth. If your opener is cringe, I'll say so. If your main photo is tanking your profile, you'll know exactly why.

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NYC-Tested Strategy

Dating in a major metro is a different game. This advice comes from living it — not theorizing from a podcast studio.

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Built on Real Feedback

The MHG following grew because the takes were right, not because they were comfortable. Same standard applies here.

Murray Hill Guy started as a Twitter account for straight-talk observations about NYC dating and life. The DMs filled up fast — guys wanting to know what was actually going wrong with their approach.

Dating By MHG is the answer to those DMs. It's not a course you buy and forget. It's a direct working session with someone who will tell you exactly what needs to change, why it needs to change, and how to change it.

Real advice. Real results. Based approach.

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Ready?

Stop Leaving
Matches
On The Table.

Book a free intro call — we'll figure out which package fits where you're at, then get to work.

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FAQ

Common
Questions

Straight answers. No fluff.

Is this dating coaching or therapy?
This is dating coaching — practical, app-focused advice on profiles, photos, and messaging. It is not therapy, counseling, or mental health treatment. If you're in crisis, please contact the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline.
What apps do you work with?
Primarily Hinge, Bumble, and Tinder — the three apps that drive the most dates for men in NYC. The same principles apply to any swipe-based app.
How does it work after I book?
The intro call is free and takes about 10 minutes — it's just to figure out which package fits your situation. After that, you send over your profile, screenshots, or conversation threads depending on your plan, and the work gets done from there. No video calls required.
Do I need to be in NYC?
Nope. Everything is done remotely — you can be anywhere. The strategy works regardless of your city.
What's the difference between a profile review and 1:1 coaching?
A profile review is a focused audit — photos, bio, prompts — with specific rewrites and changes. 1:1 coaching is broader: overall strategy, mindset, messaging patterns, and a custom game plan for your situation.
How fast will I see results?
Most guys see a measurable uptick in matches and responses within a week of implementing the changes. Timelines vary based on effort and starting point — results are not guaranteed, but the changes are real and actionable.
What packages do you offer?
There are three tiers: a Profile Audit, a Profile + Message Game package, and monthly VIP Coaching. The intro call is how we figure out which one fits your situation and budget.
What's your methodology?
Hook → Stack → Convert. Hook: your main photo and first prompt stop the scroll. Stack: supporting photos and prompts build attraction and curiosity. Convert: your opener and first few messages move things toward a date. Every service touches one or more of these three levers.
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Coaching scope: Dating By MHG provides dating app coaching only — profile optimization, photo selection, and messaging strategy. This is not therapy, psychological counseling, or mental health treatment. If you are experiencing a mental health crisis, please call or text 988 (Suicide & Crisis Lifeline).